Take the lead & invite a friend

As a stay at home parent, there is much to organise, plan & execute.

Apart from the obvious household chores or activities, there are babies & kids to feed, change & play with, a vehicle to pack with nappy bag, munch bag, hand bag & buckle in children, lock & alarm the house then make your way leisurely or frantically to structured indoor activities like mainly music, jumping beans, wriggle & rhyme, story telling, plunket etc.

So what about a good ole fashioned walk to rejuvenate your spirit & enrich the soul? Some fresh air when the weather permits provides the perfect solution for both parent & child, so why not invite a friend to share the experience also.

Any destinations in mind, how about a park with a lagoon? Apart from enjoying a walk pushing your child in a stroller & or carrying your child in baby carrier. The kids will also love the wildlife & inspirational setting to walk, run or crawl and feel different environmental textures between their fingers and toes.

Do yourself a favour and call a friend or fellow parent to arrange an outdoor walk. Sometimes a drive may not be required, often there are parks or reserves close to home that could prove to be a flexible meeting point. This option is also necessary when a vehicle may not be available for use.

Think about other options too, such as a regular walking group where you have many parents either from coffee groups or friendship groups that connect & catch up on a rotating basis or when available. This approach provides you with ready made options when your calendar activities alter or change.

Looking for coffee groups, try your local community centres, search on-line portals such as Mums On Top & Connect 2 Mums. You can also try your local Plunket as a starting point.

Ultimately take the plunge, take control & enjoy the benefits of both indoor & outdoor activities with your child/ren & a friend/s.

Is that mud on your face?

{Photographs of Tiara, shared by her mum - Suzan}

Can you recall a significant time in your own childhood when playing in the rain, mean't puddles & more importantly mud pies & dirty clothes? And maybe the other kind of brown... Chocolate, was it a rarity that only special occasions would impress upon you, like Easter or Christmas?

If you were one of the lucky few, the delicious taste of dark, white & milk chocolate was more likely to enter your world a little more than just on special occasions.

Why talk about mud & chocolate?

It is the season of special events like birthdays & past events like Easter. The weather has also changed. So why not talk about mud & chocolate.

My daughter is nearly 12 months old & has an infatuation with the outdoors, like me. So much so, that as the weather turns in Auckland, for example - over cast, cool with light rain is more the norm the past few days - My little munchkin will still surge forward and aim for the nearest exit of our house to pursue the small puddles that adorn our paver's, then reach successfully the garden, where she will immerse her hands & feet in the dirt.

Or, I should say she will coax the dirt into mud and literally within in a matters of minutes be consumed by pleasure so great, that even I want to join in. 10 minutes pass, then 20 minutes & I realise the temperature drops some more. Oooh, we we are both wet & covered in mud. Invigorating yes and then my motherly instincts set in... it's time for warm milk & dry, clean clothes.

Thought for next time? Yes there will be a next time... add gumboots & raincoat to our attire hahaha.

Only recently, we enjoyed an Easter break with Rob's family in Kuaotunu {the Coromandel, NZ}. It was on this holiday, that our baby girl muscled through bits of chocolate, daily. My only regret, is that we didn't have our camera with us to be able to reflect on the joy that spread over her face when she was trying to lick remnants from her chin & mouth.

When did you last encourage your little ones to play in the rain, or get muddy after the storm? Feel free to share your tips on clothing or preparation too. And how often do you offer chocolate, in or without moderation to your child or children?

In closing, I can't wait to see my little girl indulge a little or a lot when her 1st Birthday Chocolate Cake is enjoyed. Roll on May 7th, 2010.....

Stroll or run, the point is?

You're out & about!

As I write this post, the sun has disappeared & I'm reminiscing about the superb weather we experienced in Auckland today. It alone created an air of excitement & enticed my family to pack up the family wagon & head out for a day of adventure.

Two items, apart from the obvious were essential items to pack. They included our 3 wheel stroller & baby carrier. With no real destination in mind, our thoughts were...

1. A stroller for fitness & just because
2. A baby carrier for laziness & convenience

Where did we end up?

We started at the Mangere Markets for a morning stroll around various stalls & in particular stopped at a favourite eating haunt - Mussel Madness for a delicious mussel fritter & whitebait fritter. My daughter relished the mussels & whitebait, so much so we had to buy another, for mummy that is hahaha.

From there, we made our way south west to the Drury off ramp with Waiuku in mind. After a few kilometers we decided to veer off the main road & turn further inland to pass through a quaint, tidy little village named Patumahoe that boasted with signage of the Wrights Watergardens.

After a few more kilometers we found ourselves in Mauku, some very friendly folk in that town. We followed our nose, took a few more right turns & would you believe it managed to find a sign saying '9km Waiuku'. Before we new it, we were in the marvellous township of Waiuku.

We had no need to stop for refreshments however, as we had a packed lunch on board with a few more trimmings....picnic rug, portable gas cooker, collapsible chairs etc hahaha. Had I known we were heading to Waiuku, I may have suggested a bakery stop for lunch.

So with our stomachs in mind, yet again....we took a hard left to Karioitahi Beach. Any beach would have been suffice when your mouth waters due to hunger & thirst, however this beach was a real treat. With picnic rug, chairs & sausages on the cooker we relaxed in the sun drenched shores that Karioitahi provided us with. Frolicked in the black sand & watched the many passerbys driving or walking on the beach.

The point of this post?

No stroller, or baby carrier was required in the end, however the thought of being equipped for anything or any situation, provided us with the peace of mind to venture out with no holes barred.

So the point of this post is?

No matter how you achieve it, get out & about xx

Design a travel MediKit for your child

Road travel with a child can be challenging and travelling with a sick child can be difficult. This is especially true when your child has a chronic medical condition, such as asthma, diabetes or food allergies.

You may have a healthy child on board, however it will be helpful to be well prepared in the event your child develops a common ailment such as motion sickness, diarrhoea & skin conditions like rashes or insect bites. These do create some discomfort & irritability for you child.

Child Travel Preparation for chronic medical conditions may include:

1. a good supply of all of the medications that your child takes on a regular basis & any medical equipment that your child might need, such as a portable nebuliser if your child has asthma. These typically run on batteries or a car adapter.

2. a list of hospital contact details & addresses where you will be staying or on your travel route.

3. a child medical alert bracelet for food allergies, diabetes or seizures. This is particularly important in the event your child is sick & you are not there.

4. a medical certificate indicating your child’s chronic medical condition is under control. In other words, to be safe rather than sorry, seek advice from a pediatric specialist or medical practitioner prior to your road trip.

Your travel MediKit for Kids

Much like a first aid kit, a travelling medicine kit should include all of the things that your child might need if he/she gets sick on the road or while away from home. You might like to start with the following:

1. a pain and fever reducer, such as pamol with applicators (syringe, spoon) & a thermometer

2. an electrolyte solution such as Pedialyte is great for hydration & is perfect for diarrhoea. It may come in 2 flavours - bubblegum or fruit.

2. an antihistamine for allergic reactions

3. a cough and cold medicine for older children with tissues & travel wipes

4. A nasal aspirator for babies & infants (for nasal congestion)

5. an antibiotic ointment, burn relief cream or gel and baby balm

6. a child friendly regular first aid kit for unplanned injuries. See http://www.mypreciouskid.com/first-aid-kit.html for items applicable to children 6 months or older

As a Registered Nurse, these tips are a guide. Therefore, as added comforts use the same principles as you would at home & if necessary seek medical advice.

What price for safety?

Well this is a topic that sits close to my heart.

As a parent, most would agree that our children come first right? Well, in the case of Child Restraints we often overlook fundamental & life saving factors that ultimately place our child's safety at risk.

Case in point:

It appears that some parents in New Zealand, are unaware that infant restraints such as the capsule, convertible, combined booster, booster seat, full booster & half booster all have a lifespan or expiry date. Worse still, I stumbled across an on-line sale of a second hand car seat recently whereby the seller was asked what the manufacture date is & the response was - Feb/00.

The potential buyer further added, your car seat has expired, whereby the seller responded - yes well the booklet does state 10yrs for expiry however the seat has been well maintained, not been in an accident and stored in the garage for a couple of years, so it still has plenty of life in it.

NEWS FLASH..... attention all parents, the life span does not depend on how well the seat was looked after, or how many children have used the seat, or that it has never been in an accident, or has been stored securely for a while. The manufacturer provides a manual indicating a life span in years because a car seat or child restraint is a plastic or polystyrene seat, containing metal and fabric parts that is made specifically for use in a motor vehicle.

Because of the materials used for child restraints, there is such a condition called PLASTIC DEGRADATION - a failure of plastic and elastomeric materials. This condition generally occurs as a result of:

1. mechanical stress
2. effects of chemical moisture degradation
3. effects of temperature.

The latter two effects generally result in either a loss of mechanical strength (i.e. softening) loss of ductility (i.e. embrittlement), swelling or explosive decompression (i.e. failure from internal expansion of gas upon pressure decompression).

As you can see, I'm very passionate about keeping our children safe in vehicles, not only from installation & correct use of a child restraint, moreover that the car seat itself is safe also.

As per the information provided in the following link http://www.childrestraints.co.nz/manufacture-expiry.php

Plunket dispose of old child seats for free. You can drop the seat off at your local car seat rental scheme. The coordinator there will take the seat to the dump where is it crushed by a roller so the seat cannot be re-used by anyone. If you can not get the seat to your local Plunket rental scheme, please take caution when putting it on the pavement to be collected by local council.

Take these steps to prevent re-use of an expired/damaged seat:

1. Cut the strapping, including the buckle, harness, tether strap and adjuster straps.
2. Remove buckle and any pieces that can be removed. Dispose of these pieces separately, scatter the pieces through your rubbish bag/bin.
3. Destroy the shell in anyway possible - sledge hammer, so the shell cannot be covered with a towel and used as a booster seat.
4. If the shell cannot be destroyed/cut write over the shell "Do not use, unsafe & expired seat" or similar message.

You can donate your old/damaged seat to a Safe2Go Trainer http://www.safe2go.co.nz/downloads/safe2go_trainers.pdf who can use the seat for educational purposes. These seats are not loaned out or sold to any one for use.

Alternatively, if you are in Auckland, NewBawn will stockpile expired seats for FREE disposal also. Please contact newbawntravel@gmail.com for more information.

Collectively, let's put our children's lives first & keep our children safe on the road!